Emotional Challenge
Infertility can be emotionally challenging for men. In terms of support, the NHS may offer counseling services or access to mental health professionals to help men cope with the emotional impact of infertility. I highly recommend that all partners should be offered and encouraged to take this support. Although couples may receive support together, the partners often feel as though they are on the outside looking in. Or, as my partner once explained it to me, like sitting on the back of a ship whilst I sailed it along with all the medical practitioners. In short, he felt an immense lack of control. Efforts should be made to include the partner in decision-making and treatment planning and have a presence in all appointments. They should be encouraged to advocate for their needs and where male infertility is the main factor, explore the psychological impact it may have on them. It is good to remember that at the end of this journey there very well could be a baby; a life-changing experience in itself. So, the stronger the foundations the better the outcome.
How Can I Make Sure My Partner is Well Supported?
Encourage your partner to take any support offered.
Ensure family and friends are checking in on them and asking how they are doing.
Involve your partner in all discussions where there are decisions to be made.
Regularly take an interest in how they feel about the process.
Encourage them to find someone to speak to who has been through IVF.